I really want to take initiative for my thoughts when I am in uncomfortable situations. I try to write them down at convenient times and capture them close to the moment. Some are good, bad, everything. I pick what I want to work on and set my reminders.
Emotional Intelligence
I always feel a certain way when I see _____ I try to think about what I am feeling emotionally and write a quick entry… Also, see if I think there may be any possible ways to alleviate the emotional parts of the situation.
I couldn’t be happier about today… It was the best day of my life! I like to write about how I feel with all of these emotions and happiness. I like to find my spot to let myself think about the actual emotions and feelings and how my day has been.
I did a great job in a charged situation today! I used the skills I have been learning to work together with my team in a more productive manner. Once I identify my feelings I write the situation out and how I worked to keep myself in my place of self-happiness and success.
I’ve been working on my ability to read and understand others feelings. I write in my journal on days where I notice the positives of my reading of others emotions correctly. I write about the emotions I used to better understand them as well. I set reminders to practice being thoughtful of others feelings and how I functionally use my emotional tools.
I use my journal more and more often to label my emotions and feelings as I feel them. I have been working on just simply identifying my feelings and emotions multiple times throughout the day. Once I have them written down I work to see if they align with my goals and make adjustments accordingly.
I have been taking time to get to know the most inner, deep, open version of myself. I use my journal to document my journey into myself and the things I Am learning about who I am. I have found that more importantly this helps me to figure who I am as well as who I want to be.
I’m not sure I was really in touch with my emotions for a long time. I had gotten some clues from friends and people in my life that I just wasn’t open to being social and being present in the moment anymore. I have been using my journal to remind me to be more present with my friends and loved ones. Writing about it after the event helps me to continue my personal growth.
I took a personal, moral, intimate, honest, open inventory of myself. I wrote my feelings, my truth, my everything down in my journal and finally had it all organized. From here, I was able to get to the root of who and what I want to be in my life. I set goals, plans for forward progress, and reminders to keep me working toward my goals.
I have noticed that I struggle with friends and family because I am not as in touch with my emotions and I have difficulty interpreting theirs. I have started to write down in my journal some scenarios where I have hurt their feelings and it has helped me see things from their point of view and how I may be being insensitive to the way that they feel.
Journaling
I wasn’t getting anything accomplished emotionally for myself. I think and then think some more. This gives me the ways to work toward goals with small steps… to record myself in the moment. Also to set goals if I have found something I want to work on.
It has been such a great vacation. I’m glad to have a deep and true version for myself… the way I felt, the smells, the air, the life we live and I love. No polish or anything but my exact thoughts and feelings for myself. I like to put pictures in and really just have my own private record of my social life.
I don’t feel like I can say my honest truth on other social media platforms. I like to be able to tell my truth here with my pictures and thoughts and feelings. It really helps me to take in my life and my feelings and to think about things in a different way.
Journaling helps me to alleviate my anxious moments by writing my feelings and thoughts down until I am at a calm place. I write why I think I feel this way, what I may be able to do about it. I try to take in the whole event for exactly what it was.
I don’t have the best memory of things and I use my journal to keep track of all the times I have had… the big, the small, everything I want to keep a memory of. The pictures and quick text entry really help me to recall these great times in my life.
School has been going so great! Everything is changing in me and around me. I use my journal to keep record of my intimate thoughts and changes I am going through. I set a reminder to write about my growth and how I have been feeling inside as of late.
My journal makes the best nightly tradition. I go over my day sometimes briefly, sometimes more in-depth. I like to try and identify different goals I am close to hitting and set new goals for the coming week.
I have been facing so many different tasks and life directions lately. My journal was the only place that I could get everything written down and organized. From there I set reminders to help me make action steps toward my goals.
I am the type of person that holds their true feelings inside… Unfortunately until I explode. With my journal I am able to get my true feelings out and put my attention on my private thoughts from a different angle. Journaling helps me to clear my mind and work on action from a different direction.
I have been trying out different ways to journal about different things. Working with the graphing features and what really makes me feel comfortable. Each time I get a bit closer to my perfect way to use my journal. I set reminders to keep looking for the most productive and fun way for me to use my new writing tools.
I don’t have anyone to talk to about my situation and I really need a place to think through everything and get it organized for a new game plan. I turn to my journal to sort through all of these thoughts and get everything ready to make moves forward. I set reminders to help me make my first steps.
I was never someone who thought I would be using a journal every day. Once I found my way to use a journal I realized how much of a difference it makes to record my thought s and life moments. Not only for my personal growth, but to also release myself and experience life fully through my writing.
Communication
I’ve noticed that I do not listen to hear people… but to make my response. I journal about the conversations and what I would have liked to do better. I set reminders to see if I have been learning new ways to actively listen and write about my ongoing goal journey. I set my calendar to see how I have been doing on my communication goals.
My partner and I have been purposely avoiding each other as of lately. I noticed that we have gotten into a cycle of not talking to each other about anything substantial happening in our lives. I have been using the journal to document when this happens, and also to set reminders to start with 5 minutes a night of “our time” to communicate. I write the results and have noticed our communication making a more positive turn.
I have been dreading seeing my in laws during holidays, and family times… They always ask so many questions and I am not good at coming up with answers. I have noticed this shuts me down and takes away from the good times. I try to jot down some of my current life beforehand in the journal which helps me to prepare to have a more active conversation. I have noticed the more I do this, the more confident I become in our conversations.
There are a few people in my life that when I see them ask extremely personal questions that I am not comfortable with. I am using my journal to help me identify ways I can steer these conversations to a more comfortable place for me. Also identifying techniques to explain to others that I am not comfortable with their rhetoric.
I have been a long term caregiver and have been isolated from my friends. I want to use my journal to identify ways to regain the intimacy in relationships I had pushed away. I’ve been reaching out and getting some good results from being open and making progress in the friendships I had abandoned.
I’ve been known in my group as the serial “texter”, to the point of abandoning the socialness of a phone call or in person meeting. I have been making positive strides in reaching out to my friends and relations on a more personal level. I like to document the happiness I hear in their voice from our close and friendly conversation.
My parents are aging and over time our conversations have become very short and bland. I am journaling to work on ways that I can improve my conversations with them and avenues to help them be more engaged in detailed conversation. I’ve been preparing with questions that uncover needed details without making them feel uncomfortable.
I’ve been working with my Ex-partner to establish a consistent mode of contact to alleviate the recent disconnect in our parenting communication. We used to be really good at communicating and that has diminished over time. I use my journal to remember what we were good at communication wise and how to get back to square one with a more open agenda for our children.
I’ve noticed that I have become very rigid in my political views… to the point where I cut of any other viewpoint. I have made a conscience effort to remember that learning can come from both sides of the political spectrum. I have been working to more actively listen and respect others views and to retain an open mind about politics. I’m learning that active listening is important to many aspects of a healthy, balanced life.
Self-Help
When I read self-help books I pick out a couple topics that interest me and write about them in my journal. I write about how I may want to exhibit them in my life. I set reminders for myself to see if I have been practicing them, putting them into action, and monitoring results on my goals.
When I get free time I take time to reflect on my life, the good, the bad, the ugly. It really opens my eyes to who I am and who I want to become through personal growth. Every time I take a personal inventory I feel more comfortable with myself and write new goals to fulfill. I set up reminders based upon if they are short term or long term goals.
I just finished reading a really good book on mindfulness… I’d really like to adapt that to my life. I made a journal entry about some things I would like to practice and set reminders to see where my results will lead me.
I cannot quite put my finger on what exactly I have been feeling as of lately… I just have a few words that I believe describe feelings. I use the REAL Feel dictionary to try to learn and journal any solutions I may happen upon.
I have a really hard time with my drive to and from work… every day it seems the traffic is heavier and the road rage is worse. When I get home I like to jot down a few of the things that upset me and somedays how I handled my own personal feelings while driving home. It helps me to calm down and be thankful I made it home safely.
I am addicted to screen time, my phone, Netflix, social media, everything… It has really been taking over my life. I set daily reminders to keep goals of having less screen time and I write about how I have been doing. The amount of time spent vs my goal… also, I like to try to do other things instead of screen time and write about what else I enjoyed aside from my phone.
I have been asking trusted friends and family to tell me what they think of me and what it is like to be in a relationship with me. We do this in a safe and neutral manner… and it has helped me to see some things in a different light. I try to be thankful for their participation and make sure my notes and goals make it to my journal. I set myself goal reminders to see how I have been performing on my personal work.
I have been really in a low spot in my life… anything that can go wrong has lately. I find that writing my feelings in my journal and what has been happening has been helping me, not only learn how to cope better, but be more prepared and ready to work with things as they come.
Life has been really going in such a great direction for me. The only problem is I do worry about if things will fall apart. When I feel this anxiousness I like to make a quick journal entry about me, my surroundings, my feelings, and my environment. I have noticed it helps me to identify some of my triggers and prepares me for these situations by helping me understand myself better.
I have been experiencing many highs and lows in my life as of lately… I have been journaling to understand when this happens. Also, I have been journaling about things to keep me more even keeled and positive when I know these feeling are coming on.
When I feel my anxiety may be coming on, I journal about how I am feeling and how I would like to feel at that moment. Thinking of what I would like to be feeling in that moment helps me to calm down.
Military
I’ve been deployed for a long time and it really helps me to be able to write about my home life, what I miss, what I hope to come back to, and how I want to see the close people in my life.
I just got back from being deployed and feel like I am not supported in my medical needs. I have been working on not letting myself get upset. I spend time writing out my goals and what to do to work on them.
I have PTSD and have been dealing with many emotions and daily challenges. It really helps me to slow down and write out my feelings. To take time to search for ways to improve my situation, feelings, etc… I journal about what I find out that I think would benefit me. I set reminders to check in on my progress.
I have had a hard time assimilating back into my friendships and relationships after being away for so long. I use my journal to remind myself to go out and meet new people and do new things when I can… also to write my feelings after I have new experiences and understand how I am feeling and growing.
My partner and I have not been on the same page since I have come back from being deployed. We both take time to write out our thoughts in our journals and we talk about what we have written over a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly basis. It helps us to make sense of the differences and changes we are feeling. Then we set reminders to work toward our mutual goals as a team.
There were a lot of things I saw I have a really hard time talking about… it helps to have a private place to just say all I feel and feel comfortable to work on solutions for myself.
I really miss all of the people I spent so much good and bad time with… I like to journal my memories and look back here and there just to keep them dear in my heart.
Life in the civilian world has been very hard to acclimate to… it is much different than I remember, and it is hard to get back to what I was used to. I write about the differences and how I may be able to change my feelings of being out of place.
I have P.T.S.D. and I just keep my thoughts here for myself. It is somewhere I have a strong voice about myself.
I was in a bad accident and I like to keep my journal about what I have overcome and how I have accepted and beat all of my challenges. All of the times I learn and have nice interactions with people… I write them down. It really makes me feel better to look back at my wins after some of my longer or harder days.
My partner and I are both in the military and we spend a lot of time apart… I miss them very much and I like to keep a journal of how I feel when I miss them, where I am, what makes me think of them. I write about our times together and my goals once we can see each other again.
My children really miss my partner when they are deployed out for service, this gives me so much responsibility that is really hard and taxing… I write about how I feel in the moment and what I think I may be able to do to make things better.
I have reservations about my political leanings as a former and current military member. The politics have changed so much in today’s world. I write about what I saw and what we fought for and what the current political climate is like for me.
Family
We just went on the best vacation, the kids did things they never did before! Small things I want to remember. I was filled with passion seeing my children growing. I wrote about my feelings, the smell of the air, the sounds of the day, and inserted some nice pictures.
I keep a separate journal for each of my children… the little things they say they may want or need. The hints they drop for me. I do set reminders more for my son, and for my daughter I just write and am there for her.
My Child(ren) have been having a hard time with custody changes. I’ve been keeping a running journal and reminders to see if I can alleviate any of the problems they face.
Our in-laws are coming into town and they are always a handful… I start a running journal entry as everything unfolds over the trip. It really helps me to stay calm and enjoy more of our time together.
My husband/wife has been working so much we haven’t really had much time to talk lately. I understand the work they do for our family and I journal some small things while they are away to read to and share with them when things settle down and we finally see each other.
My partner travels for work and I get so lonely without them. I write at night or after our calls and video chats to remember the work we did for each other while the times were tough. Since things have calmed down, at times we go through the memories of how hard it was and how well we worked through it.
My child(ren) are going off to school. I am dealing with many emotions and so I journal my thoughts and feelings. I set reminders for big occasions so I can keep a running journal of our upcoming adventures together.
I noticed I was not keeping up my part of the household duties for my partner. I set a weekly reminder with some important chores to see if I have kept myself on track and am being a better teammate.
I’ve been having a hard time communicating with my partner without anger and vice versa. We decided to journal throughout the week. At the end, we sit down together and only stick to what we have written in our journals. It really helps us to stay calm and discuss things in a new way.
My spouse and I have been arguing through our divorce. I really want to work on making this as easy as possible on everyone involved. I added an entry to my divorce journal about patience and being tactful. I set it daily to see how I am progressing in my goals.
It is almost our wedding day and it has been the best run up toward starting our family together. After our engagement I started keeping a journal of “engagement memories”… It is nice to have something dedicated to our personal feelings and experiences throughout the journey to marriage.
I feel like my child and I are really going in different directions. They are growing up so much, and it brings up many feelings of loss and insecurity. I like to journal about the good things and prepare for the part where it takes a lot of growth on my part.
We have been really coming into our own as a family. The love, the success, the lessons all coming in to alignment. I just like to keep my personal feelings and revisit them. No fakeness, no drama, just me and my life.
Parenting
I’ve been trying to find my balance in parenting and I write down what may need adjusted and how I feel. I keep track of my progress in my journal and see my growth through my “parenting journal”.
I have noticed a change in behavior with my child. I have been researching good ways to approach conflict and have been getting myself ready in my journal. I think with this preparation we can really get a good conversation and some action happening.
I have been trying out different bedtimes and ways to get my children off of screen time. I research ideas about how to achieve a good bedtime and schedule and keep my notes in my journal.
Things have really been changing in my life as a parent… The love, the life, the communication. I write about how I think would be best to handle situations. And then revisit them as they happen.
I feel as If I am growing apart from my child in their teenage years. I use my journal to write about ways we can get closer and quality time we can spend together. I set reminders about things that may be important to them and to keep them close.
I am trying to potty-train my child and I am working through many different techniques to see what works. I use my journal to write about what successes and failures we experience. I also write about when I get frustrated with this and how to calm myself down.
My child is throwing tantrums very frequently. I read many books about how to handle these tantrums and I use the graphing feature to denote our successes and failures in this process.
My child has been arguing with me about wanting a smart phone. I use my journal to record why I do not believe they are ready. It helps me to keep track of why they may not be mature enough for the responsibility and emotional awareness involved with having a smart phone.
I think my child is not making the best of friends. I believe they may be bad influences on my child’s decisions. I journal about things my child has said that make me feel this way and potential ways to approach this subject in a calm manner.
I have a special needs child and I use my journal to alleviate some of the frustrations I feel. I write about how people do not understand what I may go through or what it’s like being the parent of a special needs child. I also write about the best ways to keep my patience with people who do not understand my situation.
My child is a really great kid but they often forget how they got to be in such a stable life and be such a great person. I journal about the feeling of loneliness and how to spend any quality time I can with my child. I also journal about being patient when they are not thankful for the life they are provided or when they are disrespectful. This helps me to be better in the moment with me emotional regulation.
I found out my child has been using drugs. I have been journaling about the attitude and behavioral changes I have seen. I also journal about ways to talk to my child about drug usage and how it affects people’s lives. Additionally, I write about my private emotions on the subject of my child experiencing addiction. This helps me keep my emotions in check.
Romantic Relationships
It is like a whirlwind… I’ve never felt like this at any point in my life. The way we connect, feel, and just get along. I love to keep such personal memories! My way, my memories, and my life.
We have been having some hard times lately… I write about what I think the emotions I am feeling are. Why we aren’t on the same page, why we aren’t being ourselves. The reminders help me to implement new ideas and keep track of our progress and work together.
I have a suspicion that my parent is cheating on me. They are being increasingly rude and evasive when I ask them about their day. I write in my journal about how this makes me feel and specific examples of when they treat me this way. It helps me to get a better grasp of the situation and think about ways I can confront them with factual information.
I feel like my partner and I have been leaning heavily towards the partying lifestyle… this has become an issue as we have more fights and are not staying true to ourselves and our commitments. I use my journal to set reminders on days I would like to do something different, something together but without the party. I then write about how nice of a time we had just being ourselves and how a good balance would be our best life.
My partner and I have lost the intimacy in our relationship. I write in my journal about how this makes me feel and how we may be able to get back to our normal intimacy levels. I also privately write about thing I would like to try and new ways to establish intimacy in a committed relationship.
My partner has gotten increasingly busy with work and has not had any time for our relationship. I do write about when I feel lonely and how to work together to alleviate our time management issue. We both set reminders in our journals to be sure to make time and manage time better for our partner and our life together. I notice in the graphs when we have been making positive changes and are getting back to ourselves.
I have been getting very frustrated with the smallest things my partners does. These frustrations have caused a rift in our relationship. I use my journal to remind myself why I love my partner and how important they are to me. I also write about the underlying issues that have been causing me so much frustration and how I may become more patient.
I found out my partner has been hanging out with their ex without telling me… I feel like our trust has been broken. I write about ways to approach the subject and how to stay calm when I do bring this up in conversation. My journal helps me to prepare questions to ask them about why they didn’t feel like they could tell me.
I don’t get along with my partners family. I journal about the things we disagree on and how I can be more patient and respectful to them when they visit. I set reminders to reach out to them in the meantime and work toward a slightly better relationship from afar. I believe this helps us to develop a mutual understanding and liking for each other.
My partner does not want children and I do. My journal has helped me to figure out whether or not we should compromise or if we need to go our separate ways and I need to find someone who will meet my yearning for children.
Dating
After a date, I like to sit and write down how I felt. How the other person made me feel and what I liked about them. Sometimes I look for recurring things in people that I enjoy a lot… getting me closer to someone I really am enamored with.
I have not been meeting any people that I think would be a good match for my life. I have been writing about reasons I feel like I am not meeting the right people. I set reminders to try new places, and to make some new friends to give myself a better chance of meeting a great romantic match.
I write in my journal how I feel about dating and I spend time thinking about my attitude towards it. I write about any walls I may have with being stood up, or meeting the wrong person, or wasting time. I set reminders to keep trying and to take things with a heavy dose of humor and learning. I note any possible solutions or ways I may be able to get closer to my best match.
I got stood up for a first date and it really did not make me feel good. I wrote in my journal about how I felt and how I may be able to avoid this in the future. Writing my thoughts and feelings really made me understand that these things happen and to move on with good intentions.
I have come to know that I need to be comfortable with myself before I start a relationship. I use my journal to remind myself of how hard it is sometimes to meet new people. How I should always keep getting to know myself to get closer to the right match for my life.
I get really nervous when I am going on a first date. I journal some about my feelings to calm me down. I also write myself some affirmations and let the journal hold my feelings. It really helps me to calm down and to get myself feeling good for what could be my next great adventure.
I really met the best partner for myself! We have been having so much fun and living such a great life! I like to keep my journal full of the small and big things that happen. The new things, the pictures, and the “like” free memories really capture things differently than my story on social media. It captures my real life and feelings.
I’ve had my fill of dating and am taking some time off to collect my thoughts and really get to know what I want from a partner. I use my journal in the meantime to write about what I would like out of a potential partner. Where I may meet someone that is a good match for me.
I use my journal to help me keep a light heart about the current dating world. To have understanding and forgiveness. To write about my thoughts on the ups and downs and to learn that what I am writing about could be showing me a reflection of what I am looking for in my ideal partner.
I tried internet dating and it really wasn’t for me. It actually made me not feel good about myself. I use my journal to sort through why I feel this way. Also, to jot down ideas about new places to go, new groups to join, and any other out-of-the-box ideas that can help me do other types of dating.
I like to date all different types of people. I love to do different activities, new adventures, new people, and new places. I enjoy keeping a record of my vibrant journey of life. The pictures and descriptions, the memories captured honestly and just perfectly how I lived them.
Friendship
Sometimes I put my close friends into my calendar reminders and write a bit about our times together, how we feel about each other. I set a reminder to contact them and keep up my part of the friendship bargain. Enjoying writing about our conversation or our times and setting another reminder to keep our relationship close.
My friends don’t get along with my significant other so we use our journals to detail our feelings and why we may not get along. I write about being a mediator between the two and help them understand each other better.
My friends have been getting into some bad situations lately and I write my thoughts about these situations to keep a clear view of what I want and don’t want to be. I set reminders to see if I have any different feelings or they are changing to the point where it is dangerous to me or my life.
MY friends and I just had the best new adventure… it was like nothing we had done before. I like to keep my feelings about the details privately and add some pictures about how great our time was. I think I will set a reminder to do that again with them!
I feel like I am growing Apart from my friends. So I use my journal to write about positive ways I can get closer to them. Things like looking at out-of-the-box ideas to help keep us close and moving in the right direction together.
I think my friend is dealing with issues that they won’t talk about and I am worried about their well-being. I detail small things I’ve noticed to prepare to have a well-structured hard conversation with my friend. I set a reminder to broach this topic.
Two of my very close friends just started dating. I use my journal to note the positive and negative outcomes that come with them dating. I worry about being a third wheel so I set reminders to hang out with them individually as well.
My two close friends just broke up and I have been caught in the middle… I want to stay friends with both of them. I have been writing about how good of friends we used to be and am going to have a conversation with them about getting back to just being good friends.
One of my friends is being increasingly toxic in our friend group. I journal about how this makes me feel and I set a reminder to confront them about their actions and why they may be acting this way. My journal has really helped me to feel prepared for this conversation.
I met this new friend when I was at a function this week. I can’t figure out why I liked them so much so I spent time writing about it in my journal. I am going to set up some additional time to really make an effort to become closer friends with this person.
I have been having a really hard time finding somewhere to make new friends. So I have been putting myself into new situations… I journal about how I try to make new friends in places and if there may be any new techniques to try and build a friendship.
I have been reading a lot of books lately about how to make new friendships. I take little parts out of each book that I think may work for me and I journal about how I can use the new skills to make friends. I set reminders to check in and see how my new techniques are working and to continue trying new ones.
Career
We have been really growing at work and expanding rapidly… I have found this to be bittersweet as we want to grow but want to grow in a way that works for everyone. I keep track of the next possible moves and outcomes in my journal.
I have been having a hard time at work in our 7AM meetings. I made an entry about it and set reminders for 8:30 AM after the meeting each week to quickly reflect on it while it is fresh.
We have been going through a lot of restructuring lately in my division. I’ve been journaling to stay calm and write my feelings, options, and opportunities down. I have been setting reminders to do activities to keep myself clear minded, as well as reminders to continue my job search.
We have a new management team and they really have brought a lot of negativity with them. I’ve been journaling about how to adapt to this new situation and setting reminders as to how to work toward the adaptation goals I have set.
My new promotion has brought with it a lot of things that are out of my comfort zone. Before big client meetings and new product launches I like to write myself a few words of encouragement that ease my anxiety. Once the meetings are done I like to reflect on how it all went. How I felt, what was good, what was bad, what I learned, what can I improve upon.
Another coworker and I have not been getting along… I wasn’t able to identify our issue so I started keeping track of our interactions. It helped me to learn more about how to work with her successfully and some new coping and teamwork skills for myself.
I really love my job and my work family. I keep a journal about our times and successes and it always picks me up when we are having a bad day or week. The wins and losses we have shared, the pictures of it all… it gets me right back to being a motivated team member.
I really dislike my job and have been on a very heavy job search. I journal after interview calls and interviews, writing down what went well and what can be improved upon. It helps me to feel like I am honing my skills and that I will have a new position soon.
I don’t believe I am being treated the same way as my peers at work and it gives me anxiety. When I am treated this way I write down the situation and set a reminder for within the week to see if I have come to any solutions or learned any new information about why I feel this way.
My bosses have been pulling me in completely different directions for their needs and wearing me very thin. I have been keeping track of the way this is happening so in our next meeting I am prepared to explain clearly the issues I have been having.
In my annual review I pay close attention to my strengths and weaknesses per my manager. I ask for suggestions on how to improve upon these, and come up with a few of my own as well. Journaling about these identified qualities and how to improve them with monthly reminders makes it lot easier to be ready for the next year.
After meetings and new information sessions I always journal about what I learned and what I would like to keep working on and be prepared for. Makes me ready for my next promotion and helps me prepare for new endeavors.
Self-Reflection
Finding my quiet place to sit and clean up my reminders and journal my new entries always gives me this sense of grounding. I work with all of the moving parts of my life in their own journal entries and set my goals and reminders. When the inevitable day comes that I need reminding and motivation, I go to my journal and remember what I am working on and how well I am progressing… I am a work in progress!
I take very deep looks into my personal feelings and record them in my journal. I think about why I have the feelings I have, I think about where I am and where I am going. I set reminders to help me achieve these goals.
I regularly meditate, and when I am finished I write about how I feel in my journal. I use this time to reflect upon my life and I set reminders for when I need to meditate more. I feel this has really helped me ground myself and learn new things about me.
Sometimes I take long walks and let my mind go totally free. I try to absorb my feelings, thoughts, and surroundings. When I am finished with my walk I take time to write about what was at the forefront of my thoughts.
I have been partaking in yoga to help myself relax my thoughts. When I am finished I write about how calm I feel and think of other ways to destress my life. It has really helped my stress levels go down and assisted me in figuring out my true feelings.
Each morning I have been asking myself a specific question dealing with self-reflection. I have been waiting till night to form my final answer, and I spend my day thinking about how I truly feel and how my actions reflect upon the answer.
I have been painting ideas and emotions that reflect what I am dealing with in life. I use my journal to write down what I am dealing with and why I feel this way. Both have really helped me to gather my thoughts and reflect on my daily struggles.
I have read some really good self-help books lately. I try to read one book per week, and I focus on a particular aspect in this book I would like to work on myself. I write in my journal how I am improving upon this area and I set reminders for what I can do in the future to make sure I continue to be successful.
My children have been getting older and that comes with a lot of changes in our family. I use my journal to step back and take a look at how our life is changing, if I am growing alongside them, and if there our any ways I can make these transitions as smooth as possible for my family.
I have caught myself lying very often lately. I know it is the wrong thing to do, and I want to try to stop doing it altogether. Every time I lie, I write about what I could have done to get the same result without lying about it. I set reminders to try to be as truthful as possible with those I encounter and myself.
I have made some new friends and I can notice that I am changing in ways I did not expect. I use my journal to reflect on if these changes are good or bad, and how I can continue to adapt to my new friend group while still staying true to myself.
Through journaling I have noticed that my graphs and analytics have become increasingly positive. I think about the changes I have implemented and how exactly they have affected my life. It feels really good to reflect on my new self, and I can’t wait to see what my future holds.
Self-Love
I like to write affirmations about myself and my positive behaviors as well. Taking the time to know and discover why I love each different part of myself. How these parts of me gives the world something unique, something different, something only I can do. I have a reminder set to put in a bi-weekly affirmation and something new I have learned and done as of lately.
Every time I have a negative thought, I try to alleviate these feelings by telling myself something positive and trying to be optimistic. I write about this experience and how it makes me feel afterward. I set reminders to try to continue to stay positive.
I like to pick a quote that makes me feel positive about myself in some way. Then I write some different ideas about how and why this makes me feel better. It has really helped me improve my overall mood and eradicate self-doubt.
I set reminders in my journal to do one activity a week that is considered pampering, whether it be getting a haircut or taking a nice bath. It has really helped me to begin to love myself and I write about how great I feel after I do these activities.
I have set reminders in my journal to look in the mirror every day and point out something I love about myself. It has really helped me to feel more confident with my body and I write about how this attitude change has positively impacted my life.
I find myself writing in my journal how much better I treat other people now that I have started to learn to love myself. I have been setting goals and reminders to help me begin to be more in love with me. This has changed my social life and people have noticed how much more confident I have become.
I use my journal to write about what I love about myself, and it has really helped me get out of some toxic situations. It helps me to realize that I am worthy and do not deserve to be put down by others. I set reminders so I continue to remember that I am worth a lot more than how some people may treat me.
When I first started journaling I do not think I understood self-love quite that way that I do now, after beginning to journal much more often. Seeing my thoughts about myself in writing has helped me to develop a high-regard for myself. I have begun to truly understand self-love and implement it in my life.
I find that I have really been putting myself down lately and it has made my overall mood really poor. I use my journal to write about the root of why I may feel this way about myself. My journal has helped me to learn that I should not treat myself this way no matter the situation. I set reminders so I continue to remember not to talk to myself so negatively.
After a past relationship where my partner put me down continuously it really damaged the way I feel about myself. I use my journal to write about how I feel about myself and I have noticed it has begun to improve day by day. I set reminders for affirmations I should tell myself so I continue to feel better and grow my self-love.
I have had a very successful journey in finding love for myself through journaling. It has helped me not only find love for myself but discover ways I can help others find love for themselves too. Some of the techniques I learned help me to journal about ways to bring self-love to others.
Loneliness
I use this part of my journal to remind myself to make plans, keep track of why I may miss plans purposely, and to think about how to make small steps and goals to make new friends and relationships. The reminders and graph have really helped me to visualize my current place and keep me on track to where I want to go in my social adventures.
I haven’t seen my close friends in a long time and I have been going through a lot by myself. I’ve noticed when I do see them that we just don’t seem as close anymore. I write about ways to spend more time with them and begin to enrich our relationship again.
I realize that I depend too much on others to support my loneliness. I need to look at ways to be more comfortable with myself and my surroundings. I am setting tasks and reminders for myself to schedule time for “me” and to identify activities that would foster my forward progress
I’ve noticed that with the new activities I’ve been doing my mood and feelings have been much improved. Ive been taking time to document what about these new activities is making such a difference for me. Also when I find new activities I set reminders to help get myself there.
I overheard recently a comment made about me not having time for a friend of mine. Upon reflection, I realized that I need to spend some time recognizing ways that while my life is busy, they are there for me and I need to be there for them. I set reminders to specifically see how they are doing and enjoy our friendship.
I feel like I have been spending too much time with my electronic devices and missing a lot of the world around me. I write about how I feel and what I do during my device free times. In my graph I have noticed a positive trend on the way I feel when I am not constantly tied to electronics.
I reached out to a friend I haven’t seen in long time. I really was in the need for some help and a listening ear. As our time progressed I realized they were only interested in themselves and about nothing I had going on in my life. After thinking about this and journaling through my thoughts. I’ve been setting reminders to find new people to confide in who have time for a shared relationship.
I had a friend that was a big part of my life and a confidant for a long time. We have since lost contact as they were simply not there for me when needed. I have been journaling about ways to reach out and to begin to bring our shared relationship back to the forefront and begin mending our ties.
I got a promotion at work and was moved to a total different department and floor than all of my long-term peers. This has left me feeling very lonely and vulnerable as I know no one in my new endeavor. I use the journal to remind me to work on making new friendships and work through my anxieties about my new position.
I feel lonely even when I am around other people. I feel like this may be coming from inside me and I need to explore why I close myself off while in good company. I’ve been writing in my journal to figure out why I have built a wall between my loneliness and social situations that would make me feel much less lonely. I’ve been researching new ways to work through this and my journal helps me to capture new ideas and document the results.
Addiction
I have an addict(s) in my family and it has been really hard for all of us. Not only do I write about not wanting to be like that but I also keep track of how to handle myself in family situations. I set reminders prior to the events so I can be ready… and it keeps my stress levels lower. It also helps me to clearly write and see that I can support them in their battles.
I get so much anxiety feeling like I wasn’t a good parent… My child is an addict and it really has unraveled all I have worked for my whole life. I write about how it feels to fall so far and what it feels like to come back from such lows… the graph and analytics going green with progress really help me see the progress I have been working for as a parent.
I use my journals to capture the feelings I have during and after my NA, and Al-Anon meetings. It helps me to really keep track of my thoughts and goals. I find when I write about my feelings after meetings they stay with me much longer.
I have been trying all I can do to quit using drugs… I am addicted and I know I need a change. I use the journal to write to myself time and time again about going to rehab. I write about making adjustments and what I want… about when I mess up really badly. I think having this written account will help me when I do become clean… to remember what I don’t want to be.
My parents are addicts and are constantly having problems that make it really hard on our family. They make bad money decisions, stay out all the time, and aren’t there when we need them. I write these journals to keep on top of our needs and what we need for school and life. I try to tell my parents when they are around and set reminders to tell them things we need both in life and emotionally.
I am an alcoholic and I keep messing everything in my life up. My family is mad at me and my wife and children are giving me one last chance. I use the journals to write down what I want to change and work on from my meetings and doctor appointments. I write about how my family supports my goals. I can’t wait to write about when I get better and life is good.
I beat my addiction and I enjoy spending my “me time” writing about my life and how great it has become without drugs and alcohol. How different it is and how much more time I have to enjoy the things I like. I set reminders for my maintenance meetings and always enjoy writing about how much different I feel than I used to.
I can’t figure out why I keep going back to the drugs and alcohol … I started to keep a journal of who I have been hanging out with and what happens when we hang out together. It has shown me some of the habits I need to make some adjustments to so I can continue to live a healthy life my way.
I got a bad sports/work injury and have become addicted to opioids through no fault of my own, I was prescribed to it… it has started to make me notice what is happening. I have been journaling about my habits and behaviors as well as talking with my doctors. It helps to set reminders for myself to keep tabs on my usage and to monitor my feelings.
My marriage has been falling apart due to my partner being prescribed and overly-using opioids. I have tried to talk to them, to help them, to no avail. I use my journal to see if I can find new ideas to practice and write about the results. Also, to make sure I am preparing for my own personal future.
Health
I was diagnosed with cancer and I really feel better when I journal about my everyday experiences and how I feel. The ups and downs, the hardship and sorrow, the small wins. The biggest thing this does for me is it gives me a way to be more positive and go toward my goals as a survivor and healthy person.
I am getting older and I have not taken care of myself, I don’t know what that will look like and I’m scared to find out where I stand. I journal about how I feel and my want to go to a doctor. I journal my feelings and set reminders to make sure I get to a Dr. at my nearest opportunity.
I have been having a hard time doing the things I used to do… the only problem is that I have a hard time admitting this to myself. I use this journal as a place to really talk to myself and be private about what my doctor has been telling me.
There are a lot of new responsibilities I have through the different ages. I use my journals and reminders to think about how I feel about my health and to keep me on track with my appointments.
I was diagnosed with a disease that is really hurting my lifestyle. I journal about how to tell my loved ones. Also to keep track of how I feel and live throughout my times I have on my journey.
I have been feeling really good about my health. There are a lot of things I practice and read about… I write in my health journal about recipes and what I like to cook, how healthy it makes me feel, and the positive effects it has on my health.
I’ve been taking a lot of walks lately, it really does make me feel a lot better about my health. I like to journal about where I go, what I see while I am out on my walks, what I think about, and how I am processing it all.
I have a serious health condition and I do know what days I have left are tough… I write about my trials and how my body feels, about how I handle the stress and feelings of needing to feel better.
I was born with a handicap and I do not let it affect my life at all… I have tried and am doing well on all I have tried. The times I have failed have taught me to take the lessons as the win. I like to write these memories and feelings as they happen.
I have been a smoker my whole adult life and I really want to quit. I have joined a smoking cessation program through work and have been following it closely. It helps me to write in my journal and document my wins and how far I have come along in my goals. When I have strong feelings about my addiction, I calm down by writing about the benefits I have realized.
The health of all of my friends has been failing… we have been getting much older. This makes me feel anxiety and wonder what I can do to keep my own personal health together. I find it helps when I write in my journal about what my doctor says as well as what I learn from reading about aging with health and happiness.
I have had a really challenging pregnancy, I feel like my partner and I are constantly back and forth to the hospital. We have been really stressed, our emotions have been running high… we have been having a very hard time. We both decided to get journals and work to see what we can control about our situation and how we can help each other to feel better. We set reminders to do small things for each other and journal about it.
Life
Things haven’t really been going as I had planned. I feel a lot better when I write and set goals as to how I would like to see things in the coming years. I use weekly, monthly, and yearly reminders to see how things have been going.
I feel like my life has been going so well and I have so many accomplishments, but as of lately my friends have been bothered by my success. It helps me to write about this and try to work on staying successful while I brainstorm ideas of how to change the situation.
I lost my job and it has taken a huge toll on my life… I am all over the place trying to get interviews, finding a way to get back to work, and handling all of my commitments in the meantime. It helps to write in my journal to organize my thoughts and have a much clearer, organized path toward my goals.
Everything is falling apart at once and I can’t get a chance to reconcile it all. It makes it much easier to organize all my thoughts and feelings into my journal. It gives me a sense of organization, a foundation to work with. Also, it is a way to schedule out what I need to take care of personally.
I am coming closer to retirement and have been learning a lot about my finances and what my life will look like as I go through this new adventure. I like to keep a retirement specific journal where I write about my journey and what I am hoping to do once I retire. My dreams, my finances, things I learn, where I’d like to go, what I’d like to do, whom I’d like to be.
When I know or am made aware that I have hurt someone I journal about what happened and how I feel about the situation… working to find better ways to not only be the best me, but to make sure I move on healthily and took care of the parties involved.
My life has been really going great! I made a lot of steps through reminders and learning about what I want for me. I enjoy journaling these great days because not only do I feel better on the inside, I enjoy seeing the graphs and how much better I am doing in my goals.
I set reminders when I want to work on my goals and aspirations. When I get a reminder, I log what I’ve done toward the goal. It really helps me to see the difference I am making for myself.
I have had a hard life and I made a lot of changes lately… I have been seeing a psychologist and this journal and its graphing features have really helped me to see the small successes I have made. Each day when I enter new entries and see my graph staying green it gives me a sense of personal direction.
I was really afraid to move again after I had just moved last year… I could feel the anxiety building up about the new place and all of the upcoming newness in my life. It really helped me to keep track of my needs, duties, and wants for my new home. It keeps me on track and calmer when I have a written idea of where I want things to go.
I tend to go really far out of my way to help others which makes me happy. I do find that when I am not thanked or even acknowledged it really hits me heavily. In these moments I journal about being thankful, knowing giving to someone else is a gift in itself.
I have fallen on hard times financially… there is a lot of tough decisions I have to make. I found it helpful to separate my wants and needs in writing and move forward keeping organized on my downsizing of costs.
Challenges for Everyday Life
Just some things that we may overlook in today’s fast-paced world. Journal about how it felt to challenge yourself, to practice new steps in your day/night.
When was the last time you took a specific time to yourself and just went through your current life? All of it, with honesty, the good, the bad, and the ugly? Start setting 15 minutes aside a day or a few times a week to reflect and get a good sense of it all. Write it out in your journal as a baseline… this is the perfect starting place.
What is something you love that you haven’t done in a long time? Go do it! What was it and how did this activity make you feel to do it again?
What did you do today to practice “self-care”? Do you feel that you take care of yourself well? Why or why not?
Do you have any projects or responsibilities you have been putting off? Journal a list and set reasonable reminders to make sure you have been keeping the commitment.
Say hello to 5 new people today, write down your results and feelings associated with the encounters.
Shake someone’s hand, see how you feel… don’t forget to see how they felt as well…
Meet new people outside of your normal social circles, how was the first impression?
How many people have you hugged today? Hug someone, write about it.
What was the last random act of kindness you did? Do one! How do you feel, what emotions did this bring out in you?
Call 5 people you haven’t spoken to in a long time… How do you feel, write about it.
Next time you feel that you are having a negative emotional reaction to something, do the opposite of what you feel, write about the feelings and results. Did you learn anything?
Thank a member of the military for protecting our freedom. Write about how you feel, and (if you can imagine it or noticed it) how this made the service member feel.
Listen to the opinions of someone in the opposite political party. Accept their views as opinion, write about how the interaction was. Did you learn anything? Did you treat them as you would like to be treated? Write about the feelings and growth that could be involved here.
When you see someone you would normally judge, treat them with curiosity, respect, and compassion. How do you feel, how may they have felt with you being so open? Write your thoughts on the interaction in your journal.
Within safe expectations, go out and try something totally new. Take a friend or meet someone. Write about how this made you feel, how was your time?
Is there someone in your life that you do not necessarily “connect” with? If you would like to start making advances in kindness and curiosity… write about how this makes you feel, what you could do, and what you anticipate as the outcome.
Is there anyone you would like to make amends with? Be it a verbal or emotional argument or just bad times… be selfless, find forgiveness, have that conversation. How did this make your inner-self feel?
Go take some time for yourself. Time to find peace and hear your inner dialogue. Is there anything you need to come to terms with or to forgive yourself for to move forward with a good life?
Are there any people you need to think about and find inner peace and forgiveness for? Write about them and your thoughts on the situation. Find forgiveness and leave the feelings in the pages of your journal.
If you think in silence about your anchors (emotional or psychological) things that hold you down… can you identify anything specific that is bringing you down, holding you back? Write about it/them. How can you work toward a positive resolution? Are they things you can let go of in your best interest?
Take time to volunteer and help others, be it small steps or making a huge effort. How do you feel? How do you think you made the people you helped feel? What do you think this did towards making the world a better place?
Smile at people as you see them throughout your day… if you do ten a day, do twenty. If one-hundred, do more (and nice job). Notice the recipient’s body language, the way they may or may not return the gift. How do you feel?
Did you read anything today that you thought would be good for you or your life? Make sure you write it down and set some reminders to keep track of your work toward your wants and goals.
How do you treat strangers? Do you expect a nice world to live in without doing your part? Why or why not? Write your feelings about what you may be able to do better… small daily steps and reminders.
Do you have any habits you want to break? Think about writing them in your journal and setting reminders to keep a running track of your accomplishments and goal attainment.
Do you take lessons away from the books you read? Let’s start writing the lessons down and setting reminders to see how and when we practice these new skills. Use the slider function to graph your results and progress.
Is there anything in your life that you need to take down to small steps so you can stay on course? Do you know a written plan would help you certainly get closer to resolving and learning from your current situation? Make a simple plan for yourself and set reminders to see how you have been achieving your goals.
Do you have anything from your past you would like to reconcile? Is there a way to reconcile it and why do you want to? Make a plan around your feelings for the situation, go do the right thing! Write about the results and see if there is anywhere else in your life this approach would work.
How did you feel after that big meeting, presentation, or project today? Is there anything you would have done differently, and did you learn anything about yourself?
When was the last time you thanked your family, friends, and associates for being a big part of your life. Why or why not would you like to make this a normal part of your life?
Did anything happen today that you wish you had handled better? What is it and why would you like to change it? Is it something you need to change on an everyday basis?
Is there a burden you have been carrying around that you think about more than once a day? Have you written about it and possible resolutions? Set some reminders and feel the weight lift off of your shoulders as you make progress. Write about your new found lightness from action.
What are the 3 best things you did for your partner today? Write about them, why are they important? Any ideas to enrich your relationship?
What is the one goal you dream about every day? Have you written it down and figured out how to take small steps toward achieving it?
Have you been invited to events lately that you have skipped? Are you feeling something specific that keeps you inside and not going out with friends, family, or new acquaintances? Write your feelings about it. What would you like to do to be out there and more social?
What was the last opportunity you had to pay it forward? What did you do and why? When is the next time you will pass along your good fortune? Write about your plans and what it makes you feel like to be good to others when you do.